I desperately tried to make the last week of December slow down. It didn’t work. The clock struck twelve, the ball dropped and the calendar was flipped to 2010.
Now here we are. Back to school. Why is it we don’t look at January back to school time with the same anticipation and enthusiasm as post summer?
Well, it is possible. We can be enthusiastic. I encourage you to catch that joy because children reflect our attitudes and habits.
How? When it is back to school get back to basics. Pick one or two subjects. Don’t try to do it all and you can avoid burn out. Ease into your regular schedule.
For the first two school days, I plan on Bible study and introducing the new books for our history unit. We will write thank you notes for handwriting.
Whoa. Let’s take a step back. Even before school subjects, there are basics. Basics like getting to bed at a decent hour. Rise and shine early again.
I chuckled when I found many of those basic habits in some familiar poems. This afternoon, we were reading Mother Goose nursery rhymes to the youngest before nap. They made me smile.
A wise old owl sat in an oak.
The more he heard, the less he spoke;
The less he spoke, the more he heard.
Why aren’t we all like that wise old bird?
How about a balance of school work and play time?
Here’s our favorite silly one…
I think that falls under personal hygiene.
Catch the back to school joy in the basics. Start slowly. Be silly. You and your children can have a happy habit of learning. You don’t have to feel like the old woman in the shoe.
I printed this out for my kitchen window sill last January:
“You can’t change what you have or haven’t already done over the past year. Just start where you are, ask the Lord to make you a “joyful mother of children,” pray for grace and wisdom (and strength and patience), and move forward.” ~Vicki Bentley of Everyday Homemaking
Homeschool encourager, Cassandra Frear, is running a ‘beat the winter blues and back to school series’ on her blog, Apple Pie. If you didn’t follow her back when I linked to her quiet times for mom ideas, be sure to jump right on in now. She says, “I plan to be here to cheer you on and give you tips for managing these weeks of deep winter, so that you can enjoy school and home together. So check in here every day during the week over your favorite steaming cup and chat with me.”
-Tricia homeschools five children from preschool to middle school. She’s forsaken life in the drive thru lane for the road home. She’s saving bucks and her sanity with the frugal recipes and sock it away strategies of her Southern roots. You can find her facing that daily dose of chaos at Hodgepodge. Tricia is a.k.a. Hodgepodgemom.
What are your back to school plans? Will you “lie late” or
have you “jumped over the moon” and right into a full schedule?
Laura says
I needed this & I did pop over to ‘Applepie’. And then to her links. Thanks for the encouragment! Taking it slow, but not lying down, Laura
Kendra says
Love the nursery rhymes… especially the wise old bird. I think I might stencil that on the wall in my kitchen!
Kerri says
Today we are cleaning the school area (and whole upstairs), replacing worn folders, notebooks, crayons, etc as well as writing thank you notes and if we have time, we’ll make some of those fabulous snowflakes. I like to call it a soft opening 🙂
Jenny says
I so needed this reminder. Just got back from NJ on Monday. Had already decided to delay school until at least Thursday so momma isn’t a bear while trying to clean up from Christmas,unpack, grocery shop, etc. and SCHOOL. The boys are getting unlimited toy playtime and momma gets lots of uninterrupted time to tackle chores. Thanks!
Tricia says
Jenny – glad you had such a nice trip! I’ll be thinking of you as I tackle overflowing laundry from recent sickness and we spruce up cubbies in the classroom 🙂
Angie says
I should have read this before I started this am. I started with to heavy of a load. Ended up with one of my kids (not my youngest this time) having a melt down BUT one of the good things about HS, is that you have the time to hug tightly, say I love you’s and I’m Sorry’s, take a deep breath and start fresh. Thanks for the encouragement and suggestions. The rest of the week will be lighter =)
Tricia says
Laura, I anticipate Apple Pie posts every week day!
Kendra – you are so smart! What a great idea. I did think of you when I saw the owl because of your original By Wisdom blog.
Kerri – I was just taking a break from the overflowing laundry and the torn apart classroom to check in. I hope y’all make great progress in your upstairs!
Angie – It is tough getting back into a routine. But you are so right about HSing giving plenty of opportunity to forgive and move on.
Cassandra Frear says
I came by to visit you and found that you had linked to my series. What a nice surprise!
I like, very much, the whimsy of this post and the creative use of the rhymes.
You must be soooo excited about your snow!