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Help! I’m Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I’d Known

Dear Homeschooler, There were so many titles I could have given this list: Encouragement for all homeschoolers, 10 pieces of advice for a new homeschooler, What I Wish I’d Known When We Started Homeschooling, My Best Advice, Don’t Let Homeschooling Get You Down. Whatever the title, I hope you will find something to urge you on.  I hope you find something to encourage you in the trenches and an answer for Help! I’m Homeschooling!
Help! I'm Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I'd Known. This practical list will help you to breathe easy and not sweat the small stuff. Life is messy. Habits help. This is the nitty-gritty of real homeschool life.

Help! I’m Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice

First off, I want you to know that…

1. God will fill in the ‘gaps’

He has designed each of your children with specific gifts and talents. Each unique. And He says, “I know what I’m doing. I have it all planned out—plans to take care of you, not abandon you, plans to give you the future you hope for” in Jeremiah 29:11. When troubled, take a look at the awesome homeschoolers of history (e.g., Abraham Lincoln). The Pioneer Woman shared a wonderful list of Famous Homeschoolers. Here’s more encouragement: Six Reasons Why You Should Not Worry About Gaps.

2. Major in the three Rs in the younger years.

Often the answer to Help! I’m Homeschooling! is to read, read, read. Snuggle up on the couch. Work on phonics, simple math problems. Build those skills because everything else grows from those basics. A solid foundation in reading, writing and arithmetic is important. Don’t get distracted by shiny boxes of curriculum.

Help! I'm Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I'd Known. This practical list will help you to breathe easy and not sweat the small stuff. Life is messy. Habits help. This is the nitty-gritty of real homeschool life.

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3. Wait on formal science until 3rd grade.

This advice was given to me by fellow mothers in my homeschool group. I whole heartedly agree! There will be time for formal science. Go to the library and load up on books on a science subject your child is interested in.

Enjoy growing a love for God’s world through nature study. I remember back to when my older two were both under three years old, dropping a leaf and watching it float down the stream. When it rained, we built a tin foil boat and watched it float around the curb in the cul-de-sac. Simple discoveries help a child enjoy the outdoors and grow a love for His creation.

Help! I'm Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I'd Known. This practical list will help you to breathe easy and not sweat the small stuff. Life is messy. Habits help. This is the nitty-gritty of real homeschool life.

4. Act like homeschoolers.

If you find yourself in a Help! I’m Homeschooling heap, learn from me and don’t try to reproduce a school setting at home. Make learning natural and comfortable. Build learning centers. At the heart of our homeschool makeover series, is the goal of making learning easy. Take advantage of the freedoms in your schedule. Move your learning outside on a nice day.

This bright, new day, complete with twenty-four hours of opportunities, choices, and attitudes comes with a perfectly matched set of 1,440 minutes. This unique gift, this one day, cannot be exchanged, replaced, or refunded. Handle with care. Make the most of it. There is only one to a customer!  ~ from my  Ellie Claire journal

5. Don’t skip Bible study and quiet time with the Lord for academics. (And that includes mom!)

Teach to the heart. Devotionals and Bible studies are built into our curriculum budget. Some of our favorite resources are in Devotionals and Other Resources. And we aim to keep The Word Within Sight.

Help! I'm Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I'd Known. This practical list will help you to breathe easy and not sweat the small stuff. Life is messy. Habits help. This is the nitty-gritty of real homeschool life.

6. Life is messy. Habits help.

At the risk of being a broken record, I’ll just simply point you to the Ultimate List of Helpful Habits. This page includes our homeschool habits and all our housekeeping habits are here.

The best thing that you can give your children, next to good habits, is good memories. ~Barbara Johnson

7. Stress life skills.

The goal is for our children to be responsible, God-fearing adults. Let your children learn the stuff of real life while at home. Let them fail under your care. Drive the lawn mower. Plan the menu (or the making of the afternoon treats).

8. Enjoy activities close by.

Especially when my children were little, I would worry over the fact that I was not taking them on all the field trips. But, we were visiting my grandmother every week. And we participated in the state fair, turning in art entries.

Go to the farmer’s market. Walk the little trail down the road. It doesn’t have to be hard or take much time.

Help! I'm Homeschooling! 10 Pieces of Advice I Wish I'd Known. This practical list will help you to breathe easy and not sweat the small stuff. Life is messy. Habits help. This is the nitty-gritty of real homeschool life.

9. Laugh.

Especially when doing math. When you want to scream, just sing. You might consider dancing with the dishes.

Laugh at yourself first before anyone else can. ~ Elsa Maxwell

10. “Prayer first; prayer before anything or there isn’t anything else.”

~ words with annvoskamp.com and holleygerth.com

But also prayer throughout the day. Practical Prayer – “Breathe out… send a prayer up… Breathe in…soak up His wisdom, give thanks. It’s a conversation. It’s easy. Something you don’t even have to put effort into.”

If your children have the habit of prayer then they will always have the answers. Just pray. All Day. The little saying I share often…

You can’t change what you have or haven’t done over the past year. Just start where you are, ask the Lord to make you a “joyful mother of children,” pray for grace and wisdom (and strength and patience), and move forward. ~ Vicki Bentley, HSLDA and Everyday Homemaking

Help! I’m Homeschooling! book

This post inspired a whole Help! I’m Homeschooling book! Take a look at the Table of Contents here.

Help! I’m Homeschooling! is packed with the practical, how to advice to encourage you and build your confidence – whether you are a brand-new homeschooler or a seasoned veteran.

Don’t miss the other 10 in 10 posts at iHomeschool Network…

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-originally published 2012

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Tricia faces a daily dose of chaos homeschooling five children. The biggest lesson she’s learned? At the end of the day – when the dishes are put away and the children are tucked in bed – truly what matters is each child’s relationship with the Lord. Raising children is a God-given privilege and, folks, the time is short.

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  1. Barb-Harmony Art Mom says

    July 3, 2012 at 6:10 AM

    I especially like number 8 and number 3. Keep it simple and it doesn’t have to be hard to be meaningful.

    Nice list Tricia. 🙂

    Reply
  2. Stephanie @ Harrington Harmonies says

    July 3, 2012 at 7:25 AM

    I totally agree with 2 in that my youngest was a slower reader. But even my good readers did a lot of reading. So read, read, read, is right. And #one is so true. Very glad God is there to fill in the gaps. I know there is always gaps…we just can’t cover everything. But they turn out all right in the end. God’s got our backs.

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  3. Hodgepodgemom says

    July 3, 2012 at 7:50 AM

    I agree ladies! And there’s so much more I’m still learning…

    Reply
  4. Jennifer says

    July 3, 2012 at 9:44 AM

    I’m glad to know about the science one. It is my achilles heel. I thought we needed to do formal science and now it’s my kids least favorite subject. Fact is, the LOVE exploring nature, figuring out how things work, watching science based videos. Thankfully, we aren’t so far along we can’t correct for my mistakes. (Which is why I like the “God will fill in the gaps” one too.

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  5. Jeff says

    July 3, 2012 at 11:27 AM

    I am a Ph.D. Chemist & I work with engineers. My wife homeschools our 6 children. I like #3 but I would propose it doesn’t go far enough. Science is a systematic study of the universe. It can be built by developing skills of observation, documentation, analysis, and critical thinking combined with fostering curiosity. There is little value, IMO, in learning science for the sake of science until students have the mathematical background to really understand the phenomena. Have the kids observe, draw, and journal. Encourage them to push forward in their math. But don’t sweat any formal science curriculum until your local homeschool laws require it. You can wait until late middle school or beginning of high school if you want to do so. We are focusing on the skills of doing scientific experiments and writing lab reports (using scientific methodologies) through middle school. We are also emphasizing that math is the “grammar” of science. I fully expect the kids to be able to master the high school science material with this background. Of course none of this should be taken to discourage a student’s own scientific interests. Let ’em charge ahead as fast as they want to!

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    • Hodgepodgemom says

      July 4, 2012 at 6:59 AM

      Hi Jeff, Sounds like both our families are passionate about learning. Thanks for your comment! I agree that #3 doesn’t go far enough. However, this post is just a simple overview. I could have expanded a great deal on this already lengthy – almost 900 word article 🙂 Yes, I agree, let them charge ahead! What you suggest is pretty much what we already do. I linked specifically to our nature studies in #3 – which include observation, drawing and journaling: https://www.yourbesthomeschool.com/tag/nature-studies/ You might take a look at our chalk pastel tutorials (currently 45 lessons) which include so many nature entries: https://www.yourbesthomeschool.com/2011/01/pastels-plus-links-to-tutorials/ In this post I speak to the unit study approach we use for science, which all the children join in: https://www.yourbesthomeschool.com/2012/04/unit-studies-with-multiple-ages/ Our younger children have also enjoyed Answers in Genesis’ Answers for Preschoolers curriculum which includes fun ‘science’ type activities. Our Kindergartener even won first place for our homeschool group’s science fair with her entry! https://www.yourbesthomeschool.com/2011/10/science-fair-and-art-show-results-kindergartener/ Yes, I agree, don’t sweat it, foster curiosity and enjoy learning.

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  6. Shelly says

    July 3, 2012 at 12:56 PM

    Thanks for reminding us to “Act Like Homeschoolers!” That’s often so hard for me as a former public school teacher! Well said!

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  7. Angela says

    July 3, 2012 at 4:21 PM

    Now THAT is a great list!

    Reply
  8. Sharla says

    July 3, 2012 at 6:01 PM

    The advice at the end is especially awesome! I really need to remind myself of that one. It’s easy to be too hard on myself and worry about what didn’t get done instead of celebrating what did. Great list!

    Reply
  9. Elizabeth says

    July 3, 2012 at 9:46 PM

    Yes, Life Skills! I forgot about that one! Great list!

    Reply
  10. Mary says

    July 6, 2012 at 8:45 AM

    These are SO WISE, Tricia. I love what you say about God filling in the gaps. I haven’t been at this that long, but I can so obviously see how the Holy Spirit is always present in our homeschool.

    I also love all of your habits – I learn a lot from you – thank you!

    Reply
  11. Kim A. says

    July 7, 2012 at 9:06 PM

    Love it! Agree with every one.
    =)

    Reply
  12. Angie B. says

    January 10, 2013 at 8:25 AM

    I really needed this!!! Thank you so much!!!

    Reply
  13. Jill says

    January 11, 2013 at 8:47 AM

    I could not agree more with you! Sharing on Blessed Beyond a doubt! Thank you for your words of wisdom!

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    • Hodgepodgemom says

      January 11, 2013 at 10:04 AM

      Thank you fellow homeschool mama!

      Reply
  14. Sarah says

    January 11, 2013 at 10:41 PM

    I loved this, glad I can take advantage of these since we’re just starting out!!!

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    • Hodgepodgemom says

      January 11, 2013 at 11:06 PM

      Absolutely!! So wish I’d known when I started! Blessings on your beginnings and future homeschool days!

      Reply
  15. Tami Owens says

    August 14, 2013 at 4:06 PM

    Tricia,

    I couldn’t agree more. God has been showing me we should spend a little more time on the “extras” and the character and life skills while they are still young this year. Thank you for sharing this!

    Blessings,

    Tami

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  16. Fonny says

    April 13, 2015 at 9:59 PM

    Thank you so much for sharing! I will start homeschooling my kids in the coming semester.. and I really feel overwhelmed & discouraged.. Will I be able to teach them ‘properly’, etc, etc.. But your article has encouraged me so much & reminded me that God would fill in the gaps.. Thank you once again…

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    • Hodgepodgemom says

      April 13, 2015 at 10:34 PM

      He will provide as He always does and give you the strength you need for each day. It is refinement by fire but His mercies are new every morning! Blessings on starting your journey. Excited for you 🙂

      Reply
  17. Brandy @ Our Thrifty Home says

    April 24, 2015 at 6:57 PM

    This is a fantastic post! Everything is spot on. I just recently posted an article on my blog about the importance of teaching and focusing on the 3 R’s in the early years. I wholeheartedly believe in that. Always important to pray, as well. Great article! Thank you for sharing.

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