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Manners Monday

This idea has been inspired by some previous posts here at Habits, as well as my recent realization that I have completely dropped the ball when it comes to teaching my children manners. Of course they know the basics of  please, thank you, and you’re welcome, but there is so much we have missed. It was time to build the habit of Manners Monday.

Here is how I am teaching my children manners. Of course they know the basics of  please, thank you, and you're welcome, but there is so much we have missed. It was time to build the habit of Manners Monday.
Photo by Amy Law

So, instead of adding one more thing to our already full school day, we decided that this is the perfect opportunity to incorporate Kerri’s idea of a special dinner night once a week. We’ll get out the wedding china, which my kids have never had the opportunity to use. We’ll use a tablecloth and cloth napkins, and as Angie suggested in her teatime article, we’ll make learning manners a fun occasion. 

Manners Monday

Why Monday? Well, because I like a catchy title. Really it just works out that Monday is the day that we are all most likely to be home and the day that we are least likely to have company over.

We’ll start with the basics of table manners and go from there, keeping our special dinner night  as a perfect opportunity to practice what we’ve learned. Then we’ll add in other social graces. Maybe one night after dinner we’ll play a game where we practice good telephone manners. Maybe another night we’ll write letters or thank you notes to friends and family. Since I’m raising a houseful of little gentlemen, we’ll also incorporate lessons on how to treat little ladies.

I’m not going to pretend to be an etiquette expert. In fact, my husband and I are both looking forward to learning along with our kids. I’m currently searching for some good books on the subject of manners, but here are a few internet resources I’ve come across:

  • What’s Cooking America has a very thorough article on dining etiquette.
  • At Life123, I found articles covering everything from thank you notes to texting etiquette.
  • Family Education has several articles about teaching manners to children.
  • Manners Made Easy Review at The Curriculum Choice.

If you know of any good books on the subject of etiquette, please share them here. I’m only beginning to scratch the surface on what materials are available.

Here is how I am teaching my children manners. Of course they know the basics of  please, thank you, and you're welcome, but there is so much we have missed. It was time to build the habit of Manners Monday.

-originally published January 2010

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  1. Tricia says

    January 18, 2010 at 8:45 AM

    I love the Monday Manners alliteration! What a great habit to practice.

    I stumbled across a Christian Miss Manners in the bookstore last year. June Moore of Moore Manners has a website. You can sign up for a tip of the week, kindly delivered to your inbox – one habit for the week!

    http://www.bhpublishinggroup.com/Manners/index.asp

    Thank you, m’am for this reminder.

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  2. Angie says

    January 18, 2010 at 12:21 PM

    Great idea! Here is a book that I have and this post remided me that I need to pull it out =) Everyday Graces: A Child’s Book of Good Manners. It uses literature to teach manners
    http://www.amazon.com/Everyday-Graces-Childs-Manners-Foundations/dp/1932236090

    I have just been telling myself the last couple of weeks that I have to start Tea Time’s again. We unfortunately(sp?) got out of the habit =(

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  3. Angie says

    January 18, 2010 at 12:27 PM

    Thank you Tricia for the link!! =)

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  4. Ginger says

    January 28, 2010 at 3:06 PM

    I love this idea Kendra. I may try this with my kids. Josh has been asking lately if we can use the “good silverware” so Manners Monday would be the perfect occasion to get it out. The fact that it happens every Monday might make me actually do it since it’s already planned. Thanks!

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  5. Jamie says

    May 31, 2010 at 9:48 AM

    Love this idea!

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  6. Stacey says

    May 31, 2010 at 1:28 PM

    there is a dick and jane book of manners that is very thorough and modern book

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  7. Marni says

    February 22, 2021 at 11:10 AM

    Thank you for this fun idea. Connoisseur Kids is a great book for teaching etiquette and manners. I’m looking forward to checking out these other resources.

    Reply
  8. Kari Vanhoozer says

    February 22, 2021 at 4:04 PM

    My Little Golden Book of Manners- A Little Golden Book (1962)
    Connoisseur Kids: Etiquette, Manners, and Living Well for Parents and Their Little Ones by Jennifer Scott (2019)
    books that depict characters with good manners like MILLY MOLLY MANDY or LITTLE WOMEN.
    Habits we have worked on (one a month): kindER in SeptembER, when you want something from a sibling put them first and say “When you are done with that toy, I would like.”

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